Use It Or Lose It – What Abilities Does Scorpio Need To Use?

Use It Or Lose It – What Abilities Does Scorpio Need To Use?

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Use It – What Abilities Does Scorpio Need To Use?

Scorpio:

Is unshockable

Understands the failings and foibles of others

Has intense concentration and focus

Is penetrating and probing

Is investigative and determined to find out what is happening and why.

Is dynamic

Is emotional

Is tenacious

Is sensual

Is magnetic

Is passionately caring

Is protective

Is concerned

Can be self-critical and is always looking for ways to perfect themselves.

Scorpio will be motivated to use those skills that will improve their finances as Scorpio likes money and likes the power it can bring even more. Wise Scorpio knows that money opens those doors that Scorpio would like to go through. Scorpio would like to know exactly what lies behind those doors.

Scorpio usually chooses their goals with care and ensures that they pursue those goals that they have a 100% chance of hitting. So far, so sensible but might Scorpio have more fun aiming even higher and running the risk of failure occasionally? After all failure is unlikely to floor the Zodiac’s phoenix for too long! Scorpio also needs to check that the goals that they are chasing down are still suitable in order to avoid that sinking feeling you get when you find that you longer want what you’ve got.

Scorpio might find that it behoves them to take steps combat jealousy, possessiveness/need to control and become more even tempered if they are finding that jealousy, possessiveness and rage are ruining your relationships. The same goes for vengefulness.

Some Scorpios spend so much time supressing those personality traits that they feel are “bad” that they have little energy left over for anything else including using those talents that will enable them to lead a more fulfilled life. For those Scorpios a reasonable way forward might be to accept that everybody feels jealous, angry or like getting revenge from time to time. It’s nothing to be ashamed of. By accepting and recognising that we have these emotions they become easier to handle (and combat if necessary). By accepting that you are a perfectly likeable and decent human being you are less likely to punish yourself by self-sabotaging.

If we choose not to use our innate Sun sign strengths then it is not just a matter of losing them – we are likely to find ourselves expressing the more negative traits associated with our Sun sign nature, which for Scorpio are:

Self-destructive

Moody

Ruthless

Sadistic

Overbearing

Controlling

Suspicious

Jealous and possessive

Insulting

Secretive

Dangerous

Hurtful and insulting

Quick-tempered

Obstinate

Intolerant

Cunning

To find out more take a look at my AstroCoaching for Scorpio book – follow this link to find out more

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Use It Or Lose It – What Abilities Does Libra Need To Use?

Use It Or Lose It – What Abilities Does Libra Need To Use?

Use It – What Abilities Does Libra Need To Use?

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Libra

Is co-operative

Is an excellent negotiator (or mediator)

Has a sense of fair play

Is charming and is a great companion

Is artistic

Is refined

Is diplomatic

Has strong beliefs and clear vision once arrived at.

Is sincere

Is loving

Is romantic

Is communicative

Has leadership qualities

Takes reasoned action

As Libra is a Cardinal sign (i.e. one that likes to be in charge and in control) Libra really does need to get comfortable with conflict and standing their ground in order to achieve all that they are capable of. If you can get comfortable with and accept conflict as a part of life then life will get more harmonious. You will also be able to take charge of your life (something that all Cardinal signs were born to do) and create the life you want to. Once you feel in control of your life (or those elements of it you can control) you feel at peace with yourself. In other words life feels more harmonious and balanced as you’re not continually dancing to someone else’s tune. A great way to exert some control over your life is to establish boundaries in terms of telling people exactly what you will and will not tolerate. It may lose you a few friends but do you really want people who disrespect you as friends anyway?

Libra needs to ensure that their life is as balanced and harmonious as possible if they are to be in the best position to make use of their innate talents.

If we choose not to use our innate Sun sign strengths then it is not just a matter of losing them – we are likely to find ourselves expressing the more negative traits associated with our Sun sign nature, which for Libra are:

Paralysis of analysis

Fear of making the wrong decision

Tendency to vacillate

Leading people on

Appearing indolent

Mood swings

Gullibility

Petulance, when asked to carry out orders.

Not always able to be objective about yourself or your situation.

Going overboard to ensure that everyone else is happy, while ignoring your own needs and happiness

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Use It Or Lose It – What Abilities Does Virgo Need To Use?

Use It Or Lose It – What Abilities Does Virgo Need To Use?

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Use It – What Abilities Does Virgo Need To Use?

Virgo

Is organised

Is dedicated

Is painstaking

Is humane and helpful

Is sympathetic

Is gentle with the helpless (people and animals)

Is physically sensual

Is emotionally warm

Is witty and charming

Virgo is usually into perfecting themselves so will be eager to use those skills that they have been blessed with. They will also be keen to add to them .

Virgo is great at analysis and should ensure that their lives are full of opportunities to make use of this great talent. A worthwhile step to take would be to perfect the ability to know when analysing becomes nit-picking or an excuse for procrastinating.  Sometimes one can analyse a situation to death and find oneself no further forward. There are many times when it’s better just to make a decision and stick with it rather than spending too long striving to come up the perfect answer. Learning to know when you do not have enough data to draw logical conclusions about what is going on, why someone is acting the way that they are and what is the best course of action to take. Let’s face it people and their feelings often don’t lend themselves to left brained rational analysis.

Virgo is usually great at seeing what could be improved or what needs to be changed and that includes their nearest and dearest. In order to make the most of this invaluable talent it might be a good idea to learn how to give constructive criticism rather than just criticism! That way you’ll get plenty of that appreciation that you so often miss out on!

Virgo often shows their love by doing practical things to help others out, so ensure that you have plenty of opportunities to do this

Most Virgos are superb at time management, scheduling and organising others. These talents are highly prised so it would be a shame not to use them. They are also invaluable when it comes to building on and utilising the other skills that you have or have yet to develop.

If we choose not to use our innate Sun sign strengths then it is not just a matter of losing them – we are likely to find ourselves expressing the more negative traits associated with our Sun sign nature, which for Virgo are:

Scathing criticism of others

Dogmatic

Untidy

Prudish

Eccentric

Undemonstrative

Nervous and worried

Hypochondriac.

Over demanding

To find out more take a look at my AstroCoaching for Virgo book – follow this link to find out more

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Use It Or Lose It – What Abilities Does Leo Need To Use?

Use It Or Lose It – What Abilities Does Leo Need To Use?

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Use It – What Abilities Does Leo Need To Use?

Leo

Has a sunny disposition

Is optimistic

Is house-proud

Is generous

Is welcoming and hospitable

Is courageous

Exhibits self-sacrifice for the right cause or person

Is responsible

Is vivacious

Takes pride in their appearance

Takes pride in achievements

Shows open, warm-hearted friendliness

Has a loving disposition

Has a sense of dignity

Tolerates and accepts people at face value

Leo when being true to their nature is usually full of fun and confidence. They are usually a natural leader too, so if you are stuck in a support role rather than being centre stage you need to find other activities where you can be the leader. You also need plenty of praise and appreciation in order to perform at your best so identify, befriend and surround yourself with people who really do rate you as highly as you rate yourself.

When it comes to friends most of us do our best to fit in with them and sometimes (if they are underachievers) that can hold us back. We can end up in a position where we don’t want to be more successful than them in case we lose them as friends. In order to make the most of your talents be sure to upgrade your friends if they’re holding you back!

As Leo is a natural mentor it would serve you well to use those talents in order to bring some other people on. If you are good at sports you might like to do some coaching at your local sports club. You might even like to devote some more time to playing sports in order to get even fitter.

Not only does Leo like to be fit in terms of health; they like to be fit in terms of appearance as well, so be sure to use your desire to be proud of your appearance as a springboard to greater health and vitality.

Leos also love acting so making a promise to yourself that this the year that you’ll learn to act, sign up to become a film extra or join your local amateur dramatic society is a promise that you are likely to keep.

Leo is happiest when being creative so if you’re starved of opportunities to be creative make a promise to yourself to create plenty of opportunities to unleash that Leo creativity.

If we choose not to use our innate Sun sign strengths then it is not just a matter of losing them – we are likely to find ourselves expressing the more negative traits associated with our Sun sign nature, which for Leo are:

Stubbornness

Wilfulness

Contempt

Arrogance

Petulance

Sulkiness

Cold-heartedness and withdrawal when hurt

A tendency to take undue credit or to take credit for other people’s ideas

Smugness

Indifference or an uncaring attitude

Tendency to cut others down to size

To find out more take in look at AstroCoaching for Leo – click on the link to find out more and get your free sample.

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Caturday – I’m watching you!

Caturday – I’m watching you!

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Zodiac Sign Flower Photo – Cancer Zodiac Sign Flower Photo – Cancer Flower Photo – Asphodelus Photo

Zodiac Sign Flower Photo – Cancer Zodiac Sign Flower Photo – Cancer Flower Photo – Asphodelus Photo

 

Asphodelus is associated with the zodiac sign of Cancer .

To find put more about which plants and flower belong with which Zodiac sign take a look in Zodiac Flowers – Flowers And Plants For Each Sun Sign follow this link to find out more and get your free sample. Also take a look at Zodiac Sign Flowers – Flowers And Plants For Each Sun Sign (click here to find out more and get your free sample), Zodiac Sign Flowers Photobook – A Collection of Flower Photographs for Each Sun Sign Vol. 1 (to find out more and get your free sample click on this link) and Zodiac Sign Flowers Photobook – A Collection of Flower Photographs for Each Sun Sign Vol. 2 (to find out more and get your free sample click on this link). To find out which flowers are associated with Cancer check out Cancer Zodiac Sign Flowers Photo Book (click on the link to find out more and get you free sample).

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Use It Or Lose It – What Abilities Does Cancer Need To Use?

Use It Or Lose It – What Abilities Does Cancer Need To Use?

Cancer At Their Best

Use It – What Abilities Does Cancer Need To Use?

Cancer

Is astute

Is intuitive

Is determined

Is persistent

Is compassionate

Is kind

Is empathetic

Is protective

Is caring

Is helpful

Is domesticated

Has total recall

One thing that can hold Cancerians back is fear of failure or of things going wrong, so in order to make best use of those innate talents of yours you might want to get to grips with any fears that are holding you back and accept that often fear is just False Evidence Appearing Real. Have a quick read of the earlier posts on Negative Bias to get things in perspective. Remember that you are both intuitive and shrewd so it is unlikely that you will misread a situation if you trust yourself enough to act on your hunches. This also applies to your dealings with other people and can help you find it easier to trust people, which can hold you back when it comes to making the most of your talents.

Like Earth sign Taurus you would benefit from learning how to establish boundaries if you haven’t already done so and by taking steps to overcome shyness and develop more self-confidence. Another step that you could take to ensure that you recognise your talents and use them would be to commit to spending time with positive and uplifting people.

If we choose not to use our innate Sun sign strengths then it is not just a matter of losing them – we are likely to find ourselves expressing the more negative traits associated with our Sun sign nature, which for Cancer are:

Selfish

Manipulative

Holds on to insults

Matriarchal

Crabby

Too easily hurt

Introspective

Overpowering.

Possessive

Moody

To find out more take a look at my AstroCoaching for Cancer book – follow this link to find out more

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The Owls & The Pussycat

The Owls & The Pussycat

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Use It Or Lose It – What Abilities Does Gemini Need To Use?

Use It Or Lose It – What Abilities Does Gemini Need To Use?

Gemini at their best

Use It – What Abilities Does Gemini Need To Use?

Gemini

Is curious and inquisitive

Is speedy

Is entertaining

Is charming

Is broadminded

Is open-minded

Is inventive

Is stimulating

Is versatile, flexible, adaptable

Is youthful in behaviour and outlook

Gemini people often have a natural talent for networking which is a skill that is well worth making the most of.

Although Gemini people are often regarded as superficial and unable to form lasting connections they are surprisingly empathetic. As empathy is one of those skills that one needs to develop to succeed in life those Gemini that are uncomfortable with other folk’s emotions would find getting comfortable with and developing their empathetic skills a useful Birthday Resolution to make a wise move. You could also enhance those ace communication skills by adding listening skills to your armoury if you have not already done so.

If we choose not to use our innate Sun sign strengths then it is not just a matter of losing them – we are likely to find ourselves expressing the more negative traits associated with our Sun sign nature, which for Gemini are:

Restless

Easily bored

Capricious and fickle

Gossipy

Nervous

Manipulative

Impatient and irritable

Non-committal

Dual personality

To find out more take a look at my AstroCoaching for Gemini book click on this link to find out more

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