New Year, New You. Birthday Resolutions for Scorpio
Astrologically the best time to make your New Year’s Resolutions isn’t New Year’s Day as many of us understand it. It is our own New Year’s Day; the day when the Sun returns to the place that it was at the time of our birth otherwise known as our birthday. This is a time when many of us do review what we have done to date and make a commitment to ourselves that (if things are not as we wish them to be) this year will be different. On our birthday we often decide how we want things be in the coming year and if we choose to make a resolution to accomplish something we are more likely to succeed than if we make a resolution at a time that has less personal significance for us.
Now when it comes to making birthday resolutions we are more likely to be successful if we pick resolutions that fit in with who really are as opposed to going for one that we think we ‘should’ make.
Why not resolve to become more like to like your Sun sign? Why not pick a few of those wonderful Sun sign strengths and character traits that you have waiting for you to develop, and develop some of them further? Why not play to your strengths and make some resolutions and goals that you will make you feel fulfilled when you hit them? How do I know that you will feel fulfilled when you become more like your Sun sign? Take a look at the blog manifesto for the answer to that one!
Developing your Sun sign strengths will make for more lasting results than trying to stick to a New Year’s resolution that is at odds with you really are. Let’s face it Aries is going to find sticking to a resolution to be less impatient much harder than resolving to be more assertive or to set up their own business. That’s not to say that developing your Sun sign strengths is always going to be easy, sometimes it will be rather challenging, but the results will be both satisfying and long lasting.
So with this in mind I am making a few Birthday Resolution suggestions based on your Sun sign. There is one Bithday Resolution suggestion that applies to all the Sun signs and that’s to love your Sun sign. Be proud to be a member of Team Aries, Team Taurus, Team Gemini, Team Cancer, Team Leo, Team Virgo, Team Libra, Team Scorpio, Team Sagittarius, Team Capricorn, Team Aquarius or Team Pisces. Have a look at some of the forums that are devoted to one specific Sun sign in order to connect with people who are the same Sun sign as you. Find out what makes them (and you) fabulous!
Rather than suggest you make Birthday Resolutions to deal with your Sun sign’s negative traits I’m going to suggest that you make New Year’s Resolutions that will bring out your Sun sign’s positive traits. The more you express those the less likely you are to express those nuisance negative traits that hold you back.
So what talents and traits might Scorpio resolve to make the most of?
New Year, New You. Birthday Resolutions For Scorpio
Now what Birthday Resolutions might sexy, secretive Scorpio make? Well none that they’ll be a hurry to share with the rest of us, that’s for sure unless they’re trying to save their relationship by for example trying to be less jealous. In this case they will update their partner on the efforts and progress that they are making. They will also expect to be rewarded.
Scorpio will be motivated to stick to resolutions to improve their finances as Scorpio likes money and likes the power it can bring even more. Wise Scorpio knows that money opens those doors that Scorpio would like to go through. Scorpio would like to know exactly what lies behind those doors.
Scorpio usually chooses their goals with care and ensures that they pursue those goals that they have a 100% chance of hitting. So far, so sensible but might Scorpio have more fun aiming even higher and running the risk of failure occasionally? After all failure is unlikely to floor the Zodiac’s phoenix for too long! Scorpio also needs to check that the goals that they are chasing down are still suitable in order to avoid that sinking feeling you get when you find that you longer want what you’ve got.
Three Birthday Resolutions that might be appropriate are combatting jealousy, possessiveness/need to control and becoming more even tempered if you are finding that jealousy, possessiveness and rage are ruining your relationships. The same goes for vengefulness.
Some Scorpios spend so much time supressing those personality traits that they feel are “bad” that they have little energy left over for anything else. For those Scorpios a reasonable Birthday Resolution might be to accept that everybody feels jealous, angry or like getting revenge from time to time. It’s nothing to be ashamed of. By accepting and recognising that we have these emotions they become easier to handle (and combat if necessary). By accepting that you are a perfectly likeable and decent human being you are less likely to punish yourself by self-sabotaging.
Scorpio is interested in esoteric mysteries (and pretty much anything else that is hidden) so any Birthday Resolutions that involve exploring these in more depth are likely to be stuck to. Sticky to Birthday Resolutions (if made) to be more open about the way you are feeling may present more of a challenge unless you feel the rewards are well worth the effort.